What parents should be left to the children

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The fourth grade, Lisa is about face-saving small. Once, when school forgot to work. Immediately after she found a mother on the phone, her mother to work to school. Lisa home by their mother said to get. Lisa in front of teachers and students was very embarrassed, but fail to beat the mother, had their home took a job. She hoped her mother to drive her school, her mother is reluctant, so she returned to school himself. After school, she told her mother that the angry mood. Mother said: "I love you, that you know. Why do you forget to bring the work it?" "I forgot to catch school bus." "It feels really good, what happens after you?" "I think Next time I will work in advance into the bag, I can get up when the alarm rings, and will not be so uptight. "Little Liza more typical mother's practices on behalf of the American" responsibility "principle-based parent education : teach children the skills building, not a good building. This principle sounds reasonable, also very simple, but if Chinese parents try to do what, I am afraid is not easy. Consider the following story: Jamie's mother to sleep with him every day until the 4-year-old Jamie. Mother gradually realized that Jamie timid, dependent, and decided to end this situation. Start, Jamie said he feared that, my mother made a good comfort. Then, sobbing Jamie trouble, my mother looked at him, no longer speak, his reading of the. After a while, Jamie see ignored, only themselves to sleep. For children, parents are always worried about, feel duty-bound to "help" them, but sometimes just the opposite, that children are often self-late, can not withstand the wind and rain, things do not love their brains, not to plan, not responsible for their actions. That parents in the United States known as "diapers" type parents. In contrast, "tyrant" type of parents that a child is beaten to become useful to the same so that children do not develop a responsible attitude for their own behavior, this type of parenting a child or a sense of inferiority, withdrawal, or psychological resistance, easy to unwarranted attack companions. Unfortunately, this combination of two types is a type of teaching children in many family style. Really hard to imagine that this "diapers" plus "tyrant" type combinations foster children grow like? There is also a form of education even though the U.S. is not common in China now, but it is worth mentioning, so we are warning that "laissez-faire" type. In addition to these parents pay their children's living expenses, all without restraint, believe in the free development of the child is most natural. However, the young mind is very susceptible to unhealthy influences, thus deformed growth, or even become a social threat. Today's increasingly competitive society, but also to the United States, whether developed or developing China's made a big issue: parents leaving their children should be given what? Is the shelter house, car, or a complete personality traits? American way of family education of our country and the world seems to exist the way, but in recognition of varying degrees, in different countries and different regions, the proportion of a difference in terminology in various ways. wedding headpiece leather ivy cap